Everything's Peachy

I have a little sister, she's 14 and will be starting high school next year. This quote has been one of my favorites to arm her with as she gets ready to move into a school full of popular girls and older boys. It can be hard to remember that we can't please everyone. It's impossible. So every time I catch her (or myself) complaining about how "so and so is being so mean and I never did anything to her" I remind her of this. I've even taken it a step further and told her that she has a better chance of people liking her if she is a juicy ripe peach, not a bruised and ugly one. By this I don't mean that she has to be pretty to get attention, but that she should try to be nice to everyone that she meets, and even if someone is having a bad day, or is mean to her, she shouldn't let herself get bruised and bitter because of it. Now whenever we're in the car and she's talking about girls at school we joke about what kind of peaches they are. It seems silly but I think it's such a good lesson for her to have as she gets older. Plus it's always a good thing to remind myself of every once in a while. So be a sweet peach, even if you meet someone who is more of an apple person. 

Much love, 

Em

Share a Smile

So many times, we forget the importance of being kind to each other. We go through life so intent on taking care of ourselves that other people can pass us by without even causing a blip on our radar. Sometimes all another person needs is something little to get them through the day, and we can provide that without it taking much of a toll on us at all. A smile, a compliment, or a friendly gesture can help someone else's day turn around, and it'll probably make you feel a little better too. 

Much love,

Em

Keep Moving

There are some days that it can be so difficult to remember how far we've come. Usually they're the days that someone from our past peeks their head in to see what they can do to mess with us (if you're thinking "ex-boyfriend" then you know me too well). The important thing to hold on to at times like these is how much you have accomplished since this person stopped being a part of your life. I know you've done some wonderful things all by yourself, things you should be proud of. Focus on them, not someone who decided you weren't worth their time...because at the end of the day,  who's really missing out here? (The answer is "them")

Much love,

Em

Think Positive

I've said it before, and I'll say it again, positivity can take you so far in life. Thinking positive thoughts is one of the best, and easiest, ways to keep moving in the right direction. Your body listens to what your mind is putting out, so if you're thinking positively, positive things will happen. Plus, if you're positive about a new experience, chances are you'll enjoy it more, and get more out of it than if you were negative about it. Try to enter every situation with a positive mindset, and I bet things will go a lot more smoothly.

Much love,

Em

Make Yourself Smile

This week, this photo has been the lock screen on my phone. Besides being super pretty, it's a good reminder to have. Doing the things that make you happy is so important. This isn't just because it will make you happy, but because sometimes the best way to relax is to make sure you're taking time for yourself. I tend to forget this, and I think that many other people do as well. So this week I'm going to make sure I take some time to relax and do something I enjoy doing, not just something I have to do. You should too.
Much love,
Em

Take Today

Today's message I want to give to everyone is very simple. Make the most of today, because it's all you have. Tomorrow isn't guaranteed. If today was your last day, would you be happy with how you spent it? Stop waiting for things to happen and go make them happen. And stop waiting for something to come along and make you happy. Why aren't you happy? Change it. Make your life what you want.
Much love,
Em

Grow Flowers

When we're frustrated with people, it can be easy to want to scream and throw a fit over the fact that they're just not understanding what we're trying to say. But what if they're not understanding because you're not doing a great job explaining yourself? Then for sure yelling won't work, because for anyone hearing something you don't understand is hard enough, but if it's at a higher volume then it's even worse. So the next time someone isn't responding to you, try changing your explanation tactic before you change your volume.
Much love,
Em